Are You My Father?
The importance of nature versus nurture is mostly one for the scientists. However, for me, the lay person, the question presented itself during a recent visit to my father’s home. You know how family behaviors or environments can be so familiar, to a point of near invisibility? Well, on this particular day, as I was sitting in my father’s study, his desk chair slowly came into focus. I’d looked at it many times before. I’d even sat in it. But never had I taken full stock of its Frankenstein qualities. As you can see, the seat is an assemblage of pillows and straps, all bound together with rope. It’s neither pretty nor comfortable. Although there is an interesting graphic quality to the way in which the rope weaves in and out of the holes. As an industrial designer, one who espouses simplicity and function, as well as comfort, I don’t in any way consider this to be a viable solution to the vexing question of what to sit on while at one’s desk. I’ve pondered the fact that the owner of the chair is indeed my father, and that I am his daughter. Dad, how did this happen?
Friday 01.08.16 at 1:05 pm
Hahahaha! But it does possess a kind of beauty.
Friday 01.08.16 at 2:19 pm
So enjoyed your blog, melisa! First time I have read one. Also, first time I have sent a message on my ipad!
Friday 01.08.16 at 3:05 pm
Hi Kathy, Congratulations on both fronts! And thanks for reading.
Friday 01.08.16 at 5:25 pm
I think the fact that you invested the time to set up the photo of that ‘construct’ with a backdrop says everything…
Friday 01.08.16 at 8:38 pm
Ha. I forced Chris and my father to hold up a sheet so I could capture the full madness of the bound chair.
Friday 01.08.16 at 10:13 pm
Haha! In the profile shot, it reminds me of an old guy with his pants and belt hitched up to his armpits, slouched down on the couch in front of the TV!